As part of Black Breastfeeding Week, we’re proud to share real stories from inspiring parents in our community. These stories highlight the unique challenges and triumphs of breastfeeding, reminding us that every journey looks different – and every step deserves to be celebrated. Here, Kay shares how she navigated breastfeeding after the premature arrival of her seventh baby.
Against the Odds: Breastfeeding My Premature Baby – Kay’s Story
When my seventh baby arrived prematurely at 34 weeks, I was prepared for the possibility that I may not be able to breastfeed. I had previously had a premature birth and was unable to breastfeed at the time.
My newborn was taken to the NICU straight away but it was 48 hours before a midwife helped me to collect colostrum. I continued to collect colostrum until my milk was established, and then when my milk came in I began using a breast pump. Baby was then tube fed my milk.
When my daughter was 10 days old, I was encouraged to try feeding. On the first go, she successfully latched on and fed! I can’t explain how incredible that feeling was of her first latch! From then on, I would express and breastfeed as often as I could in the hopes we would be discharged soon.
Once we were home, we continued breastfeeding but there were lots of ups and downs along the way, made harder by my daughter’s slow weight gain. As the weeks went on, I realised that finding the right position was key. Laid-back breastfeeding changed everything. It helped my baby to latch more naturally, and it gave me the space to feel calm and confident. Slowly, we began to find our rhythm together.
Looking back, I see just how much strength it took to keep going. The early challenges – the pumping, the hospital worries, the doubts – have made the moments of connection with my baby even more special. Watching my little one grow and thrive on my milk has been a huge source of pride.
My Tips for Other Mamas of Premature Babies:
- Start expressing as soon as possible – every drop counts.
- Experiment with positions – laid-back feeding was a breakthrough for us.
- Don’t give up if feeding doesn’t work right away. It can take time, especially with premature babies.
- Believe in yourself and your body – your determination can make all the difference.
Every journey is unique, but my story shows that even after a premature birth, breastfeeding is possible. It may not always be easy, but with patience, persistence, and faith, you and your baby can find your way together.
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